Brenda Clubine

On October 22, 2008 Brenda Clubine was released from prison after serving 26 years for defending herself against her abusive husband.

She now continues with her advocacy by speaking out about the dangers of abusive relationships in hopes that people will continue to make a difference in the struggle against domestic violence.

"I waited and dreamed for 26 years to once again be able to feel the water on my toes at the beach.

I realize for some that isn't a big deal. But, for the morning after my release it was the most amazing moment I could have had!"

Today I Know Better

Posted on 23 February 2010
Tags: Helping a Victim of DV

I remember cowering in the corner and actually begging my abuser to go ahead and hit me! I would rather that than be called the names I was being called and being told all the ugly things that could possibly be said about me. I actually thought I was all those words that were said.

It is not something that leaves scars on the outside, but on the inside and it was hard to explain to people what I was feeling. The great part is, today I know better! The healing has taken hold and I know that love doesn’t hurt and that words are very powerful. I also know that I am the keeper of life today, no one controls me.

2 Responses to “Today I Know Better”

Adriel Says:
July 20th, 2010 at 7:34 pm
It is incredible how you have the ability to extend to all aspects of readers. Good to know that you are open minded and respect all. We could do with more authors like you.
Brenda Clubine Says:
August 18th, 2010 at 8:27 am
Adriel, thank you for the kind words. Making a Difference is what really matters. It is life changing for me to have this opportunity to reach out to others. Each day that we work together to give victims a voice is awesome, it is another step toward empowering others.