Brenda Clubine

Again, I was able to have the awesome opportunity to travel to Mescalero, New Mexico to show the domestic violence documentary Sin By Silence and  speak at the Apache Women’s Wellness Conference, just the name had me excited as I could only imagine how great it was going to be. As we arrived at the Inn of the Mountain Gods where we would be staying I was reminded of the beauty of the area. How gorgeous the lake looked and how much I wish I could stay forever. I was very much looking forward to seeing friends who had become very important in my life and enjoying time with them.

Once checked in, I proceeded down to the Conference Center where I would be speaking. Upon reaching the registration area I could hear laughter and music all at the same time. The laughter was coming from the Conference room where on the stage stood a man telling some wonderful jokes, I too began to laugh and could see how the women were just smiling and taking in the evening. Behind the man telling jokes was a group of men playing music, there was a melodic sound coming from their instruments that I had never known, it was beautiful. As I went the next morning to prepare for my speaking and attend the early breakfast in the hallways outside of the conference room were tables filled with Indian hand made jewelry, some of the most beautiful jewelry I had ever seen. Yes, I had to purchase a few items and am so very proud to wear them.

As the conference got on its way, and speakers began to reach the audience, I felt an overwhelming feeling of honor and pride to be a part of this gathering. Sin By Silence was shown and I could see all the women wiping their eyes and preparing to listen intently to my speaking. It was a great crowd in that there is such a camaraderie with women, that the power of women is an amazing force. It touched my heart to speak to these women, there were approximately 350 women attending. How awesome these ladies have the chance to gather and share their stories with each other and hear the stories and experiences of those who speak. I am so proud to have been a part of the conference and hope I can return again. Thank you, Mescalero!